USE RELATIONSHIP PRESERVING WORDS

March 1, 2020 /

NOTE: This was first posted Dec 15, 2017. At the leading of the Living Lord, we repost it once again.

WISE RELATIONSHIP WORDS

” (ANY) The wisdom that comes from above is first of all pure, peaceable, easily entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy”

ABIDING, ENDURING IN JAMES 3:17

PURE FRUIT (IN ALL)

RELATIONSHIPS

“The shortest distance between two (talking) points is respectful…( “fruit of enduring James 3:17″….both respectful parties “easily entreated”)… relationship discussion. “

….Greater or less than that creates what is currently being tolerated in this increasingly dysfunctional, accusatory, and Me Centric US Society.

Yet I find it very curious that many tend to self deflect, self preserve…and/or choose to blame shift so as not to regard themselves as in any way personally responsible.

Rising UP, Human-ing UP is now sorely needed.

PS Father God held ADAM first (then later ADAM and EVE) accountable after the Garden Fall (Genesis 3)….

…YET….HE never accused, screamed, abused, leader talked down to, demeaned, lectured, raged, viscerally attacked, aggressively bullied, and/or berated..

“PARENT’S DON’T LET YOUR CHILDREN GROW UP TO BE AVOIDANT BLAME SHIFTERS”

(Please Hold them accountable!)

http://www.adventuresinblameshifting.wordpress.com

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